Signs im dating a married man
But if he’s not bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick or giving you rides when your car’s in the shop, this is not a guy you can depend on. A man doesn’t care what anyone thinks about him as long as he believes in what he’s doing. No one wants to be a full-on conformist, but we are living in a society, here.
Instead of being upfront and honest with you when you’ve pissed him off or hurt his feelings, he just shuts down or finds subtle ways to make your life difficult. If this guy intentionally does the opposite of what’s expected from him just for the sake of being contrarian, that’s a sign of insecurity, immaturity or douche-baggery.
I’m all for going out and getting blasted every once in a while, but after college, it shouldn’t be the whole point of every night out. As long as it’s not interfering with his life, let the guy play.No, I’m talking about the kind of games when he’s fucking with your mind. He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met.Basically, he hasn’t learned the difference between dating and being in a grown-up relationship. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.He’s learned nothing from the past and has no plans for the future.